add `reversed`, deprecate `desc` for nav `child_nav_order` (#1061)

* Add 'reversed' as the preferred keyword, with 'desc' as a deprecated alternate

* Doc updates

* Add the test for 'reversed' to the toc_list

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Co-authored-by: Peter Mosses <18308236+pdmosses@users.noreply.github.com>